Since we’ve slept together before, Mark and I are pretty comfortable with each other sexually and know what the other likes, but I’m worried Mark’s wife will notice the lack of awkwardness and realize we’d been having an affair. I’m into it, so I will probably go, but I’m a little nervous about the sex part. More shockingly, he told me it was actually his wife’s idea to invite me on the trip, and she was interested in a weeklong threesome. He’s told me before they pretty much just spend the whole weekend in bed. Now we’re all vaccinated and we have a bit of time off, and Mark suggested I join him and his wife to stay for a week in a cabin in the woods as they do every year. As soon as the pandemic happened, Mark and I stopped sleeping together. His wife also works in the same hospital as we do. It’s anonymous!įrom 2018 to the beginning of the pandemic, I had semi-regular (maybe twice a month) sex with a friend and coworker, “Mark,” who is married. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column.
